I am not deleting this because that would be unfair to do so, but I am going to say that my wording there was horrifyingly thoughtless of me and I am very sorry for not thinking of that when I was typing it. I don't really have an excuse to give, just that it was really thoughtless of me and it was far from my intention to belittle or upset anyone about their own real traumas. I am replying here to put my apology on the public record in case anyone was looking at it.